“Wait, Is This a romantic date?” Podcast Episode 105: greatest Intercourse Ever | Autostraddle

All of our episode topic recently is the best gender Ever so the audience is talking about… the number one sex we have now had! We are joined by Autostraddle copywriter, poet, and reporter Dani Janae once we go into some steamy anecdotes with an in-depth discussion regarding what can make good gender quality. And we spend a lot of the time to my intimate hang ups that i might or might not have in fact accomplished plenty of work with this summer!

Arrive for lesbian movie-themed online game, remain when it comes to coming.


PROGRAM NOTES

+
The 200 Most Readily Useful Lesbian+ Movies listing
that Christina pulled the online game from.

+ when you haven’t read Dani’s
Physiology of a Mango
show you truly must.

+
Here is the essay
I penned about the person I talk about throughout the episode. Its just already been two years but much changed!

+ summer time has passed and in addition we however stan Olivia Rodrigo. Enjoy the
“Brutal” music video
.



Dani:

The cat plus the puppy had been into the area and there had been cat and dog hair everywhere. Therefore, I happened to be seriously having an allergic reaction while we had been having sex. Although orgasm had been like cook’s hug. It had been the right, perfect knowledge literally.


Christina:

We ask yourself if it’s anything regarding hives that really added slightly

je ne sais quoi

compared to that orgasmic experience.


Theme track performs


Drew:

Thanks for visiting

Hold off, So Is This a romantic date?


Christina:


Hold off, Is It a night out together?

is an Autostraddle podcast everything about, you thought it, matchmaking.


Drew:

Yay! I Adore matchmaking. I Am Drew Gregory. I am a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and just general trans gay individual across net and… I was planning state globe, but it is really a lot more like Los Angeles and ny.


Christina:

I enjoy this globe trotting homosexual individuality you’re accepting here in 2021.


Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it’s for the future.


Christina:

Yeah. Im the some other variety, Christina Tucker, also a writer for Autostraddle, deranged deafening homosexual on the net. Simply form of away right here, authorship, being homosexual, undertaking what we can every moment to try to sort out this life that people’re residing.


Drew:

You’re truly carrying it out. You’re truly functioning through that existence.


Christina:

Honestly, it’s all I’m able to do. That’s all You will find, it is the only option.


Drew:

I must say I respect the attempt.


Christina:

The make an effort to live?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Yeah. Really, actually daring of me to also attempt it. You are not wrong, you’re not wrong. Do you be thinking about playing a tiny bit online game these days, Drew?


Drew:

Oh my personal God, I’m very thrilled. Can’t wait observe everything you have actually for me personally.


Christina:

I’m thus grateful you asserted that since you definitely must say yes, because that’s element of this price we’ve produced right here. So you might know about the fact that on autostraddle.com, the website, we now have a list of 200 lesbian motion pictures.


Drew:

I realize of it. I could wrote it.


Christina:

You have. The thing I do is extract an array of 10 of these flicks. I held these to the very best 50. I will supply you with the land keywords as chosen by consumers on IMDb and you are clearly planning need guess what film it is.


Drew:

Okay. I simply want the listeners, anywhere you happen to be, to know that I am not saying browsing pull-up record. I do believe that is correct, am We making the assumption that’s correct in how I is respecting this game?


Christina:

I think that is very sincere and I also believe that’s fair. I additionally type of trust this particular is certian end up being something that pops into the mind fairly easy for you, i did not get as well left.


Drew:

We have an awful mind, but yes, i’ll make an effort to set people up for reasonable expectations.


Christina:

Fair sufficient.


Drew:

So if I do well, it’s want kind of blow them out, and in case I do not do just fine, they’ll be love, “Well, she talked about…” Anyways, carry on. Why don’t we begin this.


Christina:

Let us start. I’ll focus on pretty common ones and that I can get a lot more specific as we go, because many of them tend to be actually precisely what the movie is in two terms. Therefore weare going to make an effort to focus on a wider knowledge right here.


Drew:

I really like it.


Christina:

Our very own very first movie: medications may be the very first land term. Manhattan, nyc is the next. Hate crime will be the next.


Drew:

Okay.

It Is All-over Me.


Christina:

Yes, it’s! See, I realized you will be capable of this.


Drew:

Great.


Christina:

I absolutely realized you’d be able to perform this.


Drew:

In addition, i recently have to let individuals realize that definitely the most underrated lesbian motion pictures, and you also need to notice it. And Leisha Hailey in this movie might my phone history for a few years now. Thus only a fun little reality there for several people.


Christina:

We like that. Okay, flick number 2. “unidentified dad,” organ donor, cemetery, death of boy. Oh, she’s thinking.


Drew:

I believe like i ought to surely understand this centered on — wait, as yet not known pops, loss of boy, organ donor. Oh,

All About My Personal Mama.


Christina:

Indeed there really, see.


Drew:

Another one of my favorites.


Christina:

It is extremely exciting to see what individuals choose tend to be a story key phrase that they need to move because of these flicks. I am additionally maybe not reading the types which can be just lesbian because that seems a lot like a gimme.


Drew:

That’s the way I come up with a lot of the listing as if you lesbians looking for lesbians films, everything discovered was the existing Autostraddle listing or some databases that are not really thorough, so I would in fact browse through listings regarding the keywords of lesbian, lesbian making out, these items like girls kissing, these things, and discover movies where they truly are not looked at as a lesbian motion picture since they are more interesting, or simply just a bit much less drive, and that’s how I discovered some of the motion pictures which can be now regarding the listing, very full circle.


Christina:

Pay attention, IMDb keywords and phrases arriving convenient for all of us all the time. This, men and women moved wild on this subject one. Very simply going to review some arbitrary terms to you. Hey, whistling, lady, black activities bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, face to face crash.


Drew:

On-the-job accident? Oh, I thought I had it following, well—


Christina:

Cool, in parentheses, the heat.


Drew:

Due to the fact at first I became gonna say

Foxfire,

but then the on-the-job accident turned me right up. On the job accident.


Christina:

Are you wanting more?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Pickup truck accidents through a fence.


Drew:

Is it

Miseducation of Cameron Article?


Christina:

It is really not.


Drew:

Because at work collision will be a really dreadful method of describing this 1 from the gay because you’re trying to convert to maybe not gayness, attempts to mutilate by themselves or really does mutilate themselves. That’d be very rigorous, but I didn’t understand using the IMDb thinkers. Okay, wait, that is tricking myself right up.


Christina:

Are you wanting more from me?


Drew:

Truck through a fence. I’m sure its something I am just not… Yeah, continue.


Christina:

Reference to a school loan. These are typically so walnuts.


Drew:

Hold off, maybe you’ve observed this movie?


Christina:

I’ve come across this movie.


Drew:

Will it be wild that I am not setting it up?


Christina:

It is a little untamed. I can provide per year, if you would like annually.


Drew:

In the event that you provide myself annually, We’ll undoubtedly get it.


Christina:

Okay. 2016 can be your year.


Drew:

2016. Okay, tell me the goals.


Christina:

It’s the movie,

Select Ladies,

2016.


Drew:

Oh! Yeah.


Christina:

I must say I thought pickup truck accidents through a wall would get you, but In addition only love they just taking out nouns and just getting like, “male.” Would be that what you think?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Okay.


Drew:

Which is a good motion picture. I want to notice that once again.


Christina:

Its. It really is the movie.


Drew:

Yeah, it is a very great movie.


Christina:

Okay, our next film. Kissing whilst having intercourse.


Drew:

A method of both, maybe, you might say.


Christina:

Seduction, dude farm.


Drew:

Could it be

Desert Hearts?


Christina:

Yeah. And so I was actually like, “Okay, you have to obtain that after that one.” Additional one I was likely to give you was — “nipples” was the really conspicuously highlighted. And I also ended up being like, “Sure, that will be element of that movie.”


Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You understand how there is these irritating folks on the market trying to be Shane. Sorry, after all, if you’re attempting to end up being Shane, I recognize you. But me, my personal frustrating thing is I’m attempting to end up being Cay. Cay in that motion picture is much like that is exactly who i believe of since form of lesbian that i wish to be.


Christina:

Yeah, that is correct, can confirm. Okay, are we prepared for the next one?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Year—


Drew:

Wait, no, I have one more thing to state about

Desert Hearts.


Christina:

Sure.


Drew:

Following the finally time we re-watched it around summertime, it sort of sent me into hook spiral, and I also texted this more mature semi-closeted individual who I’d sort of begun tentatively attempting to time or time whatever, and that has disappeared for 30 days, and I had given up on because I do not ask people to date me personally. But I just had been love, “Okay.” I saw

Desert Hearts

and I was similar, “I guess perhaps occasionally men and women have their particular internalized whatever.” And that I texted this lady and that I mentioned, “If we never satisfy, i do believe you’re regret it.” And we did fulfill, to ensure’s just what

Desert Hearts

can create for your requirements.


Christina:

Wow, that’s a really powerful endorsement.


Drew:

We most likely must not have met. We most likely needs merely let it be. But anyways, moving on, after that motion picture.


Christina:

Our subsequent movie, metaphysics, scene during orifice credit — exactly what this means, it really is your choice — high-school soccer, Chicago, Illinois.


Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.


Christina:

There you go.


Drew:

That is another great film. I really like that I hold becoming astonished by this number that I got a rather strong turn in ranking. It is not my personal ranking, but I did have a large proclaim during the positioning and I like it.


Christina:

Yeah. I simply want to be clear for your requirements and our very own audience — once more, We chose from the top 50, therefore normally excellent types. Of great ones, they’re good people. I’m Sure Drewshould continually say it is an excellent flick after each and every one, but—


Drew:

They can be excellent motion pictures, you guys should see them.


Christina:

All right. Small dress with pumps.


Drew:

Love it.


Christina:

Cock blocked, mini top with footwear.


Drew:

After all, is it

Blockers?


Christina:

It isn’t. That could be also simple, I think, for

Blockers.


Drew:

I Do Not keep in mind any miniskirts, but—


Christina:

Female rear nudity.


Drew:

Okay. Wait an additional. Okay, what a moment. Okay, penis blocked, mini dress, feminine backside nudity.


Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Break dance.


Drew:

Could it be

Bound?


Christina:

It isn’t.


Drew:

No, i’d love a break moving scene.


Christina:

I love a break dancing scene in

Certain.


Drew:

Some slack moving world.


Christina:

I will present: English girl overseas.


Drew:

English woman overseas? This might be another one where I feel I positively need to have it.


Christina:

I’ll have to give you a fairly apparent any at some point, so thatshould help.


Drew:

Okay, offer me an obvious one.


Christina:

Undercover agent.


Drew:

Could it possibly be

D.E.B.S?


Christina:

It is really not

D.E.B.S.

It really is next to

D.E.B.S.,

sorts of movie wise. Discover another one, intrigue.


Drew:

Okay, wait, there is not a large number of genre motion pictures.


Christina:

You’ll findn’t, that is true.


Drew:

Undercover broker. Really, perhaps they’re making use of the phase, will it be

The Handmaiden?


Christina:

It is really not.


Drew:

Okay, i did not think so. Undercover representative.


Christina:

Do you need your year?


Drew:

I thought that… Sure.


Christina:

Your own 12 months is actually 2017.


Drew:

Undercover representative.


Christina:

I am so sorry. You are going to feel thus stupid as I say the title of this one.


Drew:

Oh no.


Christina:

I am truly sorry about this, but that’s variety of exactly the means the cookie crumbles.


Drew:

Oh, it is

Carol.


Christina:

No, it is not

Carol.


Drew:

No, it states 2015.


Christina:

Yes, I Am Aware that. It isn’t really

Carol.


Drew:

But there is an undercover — the man, that’s where I happened to be considering. Okay, what is it? How come it create me feel foolish?


Christina:

It Really Is

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.


Drew:

Oh, which is in the leading 50?


Christina:

Really. I’m sure.


Drew:

Oh, okay.


Christina:

Okay. We’ve got four more, you ready?


Drew:

I really don’t believe that dumb for the reason that it one I… after all, I think

Atomic Blonde

is actually enjoyable, but I really don’t consider it is fantastic. That would never be within my private very top 50. I actually do wish the world to know that i understand that

Carol

arrived on the scene in 2015. My personal brain hurt. I just desire the world to know that. Anyways, carry on.


Christina:

The world today understands that, the record has been shown. All righty: cafe, feeling of scent, novelist, mention of a hamburger, mention of the Larry King, according to memoir, alcohol, theft, woman wears glasses, residing alone, damaging research.


Drew:

The reference to Larry King is truly—


Christina:

Its a very weird one.


Drew:

Mention of the Larry King, damaging research.


Christina:

Cat.


Drew:

Oh, will it be

Could You Ever Before Forgive Me?


Christina:

It really is.


Drew:

I had to develop to redeem me. I found myself truly in a slump here.


Christina:

You nailed it. I do believe you’ve got here, I do believe you absolutely had gotten indeed there. Fine, three even more, our top three. In my opinion these ones might be easy for you because i am aware you.


Drew:

Great, okay, well…


Christina:

I’m sure, but i am claiming, are you ready?


Drew:

Okay, yeah.


Christina:

Mental health, medicine overdose.


Drew:

Could it possibly be

Foxfire?


Christina:

No. Photographer.


Drew:

Oh,

Greater.


Christina:

There we go. Tattoo, lady group.


Drew:

So is this

Foxfire?


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

Oh, I’m sure

Foxfire.


Christina:

I was like, “Oh, she is going to merely keep speculating

Foxfire

until i simply offer the woman

Foxfire.”


Drew:

The key is that I adore

Foxfire

and I also hold willing to remember

Foxfire.


Christina:

After all, whomst in our midst?


Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.


Christina:

Fine. This, one among these is—


Drew:

This is actually the finally one?


Christina:

This is actually the last one. This really is the finally one. Church, assertion, household connections.


Drew:

Is it

Miseducation of Cameron Post?


Christina:

It isn’t.


Drew:

Is-it

But I Am a Cheerleader?


Christina:

It’s, yes.


Drew:

Yes. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Post.


Christina:

Jokes on jokes. So as that was actually the game i am calling, How Well really does Drew understand Lesbian films???


Drew:

I favor just how great the audience is coming up with labels in regards to our video games.


Christina:

Yeah, that it is mortifying that I also wrote that inside subject of a Bing Doc, that was we thinking? That doesn’t actually appear great in my own Bing Docs.


Drew:

I got a lot of fun and I’m actually glad that i eventually got to inform all of the listeners about the flicks that they should view. Therefore’ll place the record from inside the show notes.


Christina:

Definitely.


Drew:

I might declare that the list is currently at a location where i believe you’ll get anything from viewing all 200 films. The most important version of record, there clearly was some material on there that I happened to be not very happy with. There is still stuff that i do believe that I really don’t in person but i do believe that all together, absolutely a particular quality-control after that newest change that I believe very pleased with and I believe they’re all well worth witnessing.


Christina:

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